Everyone has a range of feelings on Valentine’s Day, whether they are celebrating love with a significant other or enjoying the evening alone with their favorite movie and comforting snack. Some see this as an opportunity to reclaim the day for self-love, others see it as a glaring reminder that they are single, and for some, it is a day to celebrate romance and connection. So, how do people celebrate this holiday that they either love or hate? Here are some thoughts, traditions and advice to take on Valentine’s Day.
“Valentine’s Day doesn’t really bother me because it gives me a day to focus and treat myself with things I enjoy doing,” sophomore Aanya Contractor expressed.
Valentine’s Day frequently splits people into two different groups: those who embrace self love and those who celebrate love with their partners. Singles are finding their own way of celebrating, while couples enjoy romantic dinners and thoughtful gifts. Many people view the day as a chance for self-care rather than a time for gloom. Contractor underscores the growing tendency of putting one’s own happiness ahead of the expectations of society.
“For me, Valentine’s Day is spending time with my girlfriend and showing her my appreciation by taking her out and buying her gifts, but I think we should always express our gratitude and love regardless of what day it is,” senior Suraj Sivam stated.
Gratitude and love is a major component of this holiday and most couples go out of their way to express it. As February 14th approaches, restaurant reservations get filled, chocolates disappear from local stores and flower shops become empty. Although love is in the air, some students believe that this expression of appreciation should be present year-round in order to strengthen the relationships and bonds people have with their loved ones.
“Sometimes I wish I had someone to spend the day with, but I also enjoy spending the time on my own. However, seeing other couples enjoy themselves together looks fun,” junior Hannah Lee exclaimed.
For individuals who are navigating the day alone, Valentine’s Day may bring up conflicting feelings as they balance feelings of longing and contentment. The day may inspire moments of longing for others, but it can also present an opportunity for others to embrace solitude and self-love. The holiday for singles strikes a balance between celebrating one’s freedom and fantasizing about what it may be like to spend the day with a special someone.
“Valentine’s Day is very exciting for me this year since I have someone special to spend it with and I am excited to make her feel special,” sophomore Anish Baddam said.
Loved ones are eager to celebrate their bonds and relationships. Specifically, new couples have the opportunity to spend their first Valentine’s Day together, marking a significant milestone in their relationship. New couples get an opportunity to show their personalities to each other and it kicks them off in a fun way to new beginnings.
Valentine’s Day is a beautiful way to celebrate love in all forms regardless if you have a partner to celebrate with. Whether it is flowers for a girlfriend, chocolates for family members or a candle for a friend, the day gives a chance to express appreciation for the people who matter the most. Although gifts and flowers are a classic, the true spirit of Valentine’s Day lies in the thoughtfulness and care given to each and every gesture of affection.